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This pair of landscapes, below, are opposites in style, yet both have style centuries older than industrialized landscapes. What style is that? Agrarian/pastoral. More, both landscapes focus on the house and its inhabitants/guests, as proscenium and star. A sweet pairing, life is the focus, not life maintaining the landscape.
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Pic, above, here.
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Top pic appears modern, bottom pic appears historic. More, their style, appropriated to other sites, becomes new again, unique.
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Ambition and aspiration are both of great value. Yet how they are mixed, and their changing percentages given across our life, even a day, show in our material lives. Ambition and aspiration should be in the landscape, with aspiration weighted heaviest, they've made the best landscapes for centuries across continents and cultures.
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Industrialized landscapes stop at mere ambition. Agrarian/pastoral landscapes, even with a bit of industrialization tossed in, have ambition, but their aspirations are greater.
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What does this mean? 'Ambition is what we want to achieve and aspiration is who we want to become.'
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Pic, above, here.

Pic, above, here.
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Seeing agrarian/pastoral landscapes as a child, there were a few, compared to thousands of industrialized, I saw generosity of spirit, welcoming arms, a rich conversation, fun, intelligence, secrets, home, love.

Pic, above, here.
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Hedges, trees, & a meadow/gravel terrace is the trinity for agrarian/pastoral, and the new modern industrialized landscape. Be like Iris, know how you can get away with anything.

Pic, above, here.
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Grief, when it comes, I take into the garden. At least I know what the garden will do. A new grief? Never know what it will do.
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Pic, above, here.
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Your landscape should tell me who you are from the curb. If I see a photo of your patio, it must be so fabulous I have to go inside your home, and wander the garden.

Pic, above, here.
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Gardens have always been places of light and love, to me, from earliest childhood, and respite from the darkness & hate that comes in measure to all.

Pic, above, here.
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Perhaps it was not being able to have children, I never had to give her, above, up. Ever. No worries if you've never gardened this passionately, there is no age limit to start.
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Get dirty? When I garden there are bruises, blood, time ceases yet expands, hunger doesn't exist, epiphanies arrive, grief has a place to harbor for awhile, forgiveness is given but feels like a bestowal.....
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Garden & Be Well, XOT