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No surprise I grew up liking a little bit extra. Not much. Just a tad, or less.
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During the 1980's I worked at a garden center with many locations. Christmas was a huge money maker for them, I still miss working there during Christmas. Easter, Valentines and the other holidays were decorated too, lots of extra trinkets for sale. I still use those holiday purchases.

One Halloween/Thanksgiving I performed in a play during 3rd grade. Evening performance, all the parents/siblings in attendance. How was I to know? Read the paper teacher had us take home? My parents would really go? I didn't want to go. Quite elaborate, the play a celebration of Thanksgiving with the Pilgrims. Speaking parts, singing parts, dancing parts. About 6-7 kids chosen to line the front of the stage at floor level, no singing, dancing, speaking for them. Each child with a large cardboard cut out tied around their waist. I was one of those few kids chosen to be in front. Each of us, a sheaf of wheat.
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My dad, the NASA engineer, keep in mind this was the mid 60's, and I was a sheaf of wheat, when astronauts were dying, yet Kennedy and USA needed man-on-the-moon. Standing thru the entire play, a sheaf of wheat, watching my dad get angrier, angrier. I knew. Not a star of the play, or even a speaking role, a sheaf of wheat. It got quite ugly during the car ride home. Best result? Dad never came to a school event again.
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Age 8, I didn't know it took a strategy to be a sheaf of wheat. All of us wheat sheaves, should have staged a pop-up Wind Storm, singing a ridiculous song we made up, finally collapsing into a pile. If dad was going to be angry, I should have, at a minimum, made it worth my while.

Pumpkins on our front porch, above, win zero awards for skill/talent, yet they pass my simple test question. Does it make you smile?
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Seriously, it's one of my Garden Design questions. Does it make you smile?
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Garden & Be Well, XO T
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Cute Kills is a Garden Design rule. Hmm. Every rule meant to be broken. Another Garden Design rule followed, Overdose on a Theme. And, a favorite Garden Design rule followed, Dinky is Stinky. You over it with my Garden Design rules? I was too, at the front end of learning Garden Design. Now, I understand Garden Design rules for what they truly are, PERMISSION. Limitations? Hardly.
2 comments:
Tara, that story completely broke my heart. Honestly.
I wish you could have had my mother for a week or two.
Just heartbreaking. That.
You are a survivor......and a brilliant one, at that!
Seriously, a movie should be made of your parents. I can just see your mother's eyebrow going up.
I can't help feeling some for your father, although how very much the "father's" role has changed when men now even say "we're pregnant".
But I feel most for that young sheaf of wheat but can't help thinking that the Tara of today would have put on quite a show.
You sold me on your pumpkin display, that mix of stately plant stand and the mischievous jack o'lanterns. Would your mother's eyebrow go up or would she get it?
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