Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Garden Design Cheat Sheet: Design Shapes Before Plants

Upon the land, below, do you see garden rooms?  Parlors. dining room, foyer, hallways, mudroom, doorways and more.  And, with the garden rooms, do you see what is dealt with?  Flow.
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Site the first garden room, using the world's most used template, see previous post, from inside your home.  Once your 1st garden room is sited, repeat, repeat, repeat.  Play with rectangles, squares, ovals, circles & more, adding enfilades.
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Need a lawn?  That is your Lawn Room or Meadow or Playing Field or Pasture whichever endeavor best suits your 'lawn' needs.
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With this drawing, below, everyone is an expert garden designer.  Intuitively knowing what is a tree/shrub/groundcover/stone/gravel/focal point on axis/double axis/flow.
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Most important, this is the order of designing your garden, shapes.  No worries about specific plants at this phase.  Shape, then specific plants.
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USA has the Extension Service for best plant choices/zone.  Outside of USA visit nearby old good gardens, and botanical gardens.

Pic, above, via Jala Gardens.

Worst garden design question to ask at the beginning?  What plant goes here?
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Our ca. 1900 American farmhouse is at the start of the Garden Design phase.  Garden rooms & flow.  We must flow via foot/car/tractor/gator, and I must have an orchard, potager, shrubbery, vistas, pleasure walks, garden house, chicken coop, vined arbor for harvest table.  The garden must have something coming into bloom every 2 weeks, ease of maintenance, and make me think, 'Oh WOW', each time I look outside any window of our home, zero watering, chemicals, fertilizing, deer proof, provide a tasty tidbit for the table throughout the year, more than Earth friendly, wildlife friendly, a garden of stewardship, enriching in waves beyond my soul.
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Topics inherent within this mission statement?  Increased property value, decreased HVAC expense, happier days, stewardship.
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Read all of the above, again, with laser precision about property value, decreased HVAC expense, and ease of maintenance.  I went after all of the above, for the love of gardens, instead found many of the truths in a simple phrase, G*d almighty first created a garden.  Won't go into that rabbit hole now, instead, money.  2015 was my year for several real estate sales, for myself & others, fast and at market value, with several perks added.  No, I'm not a realtor.  The homes were staged inside/outside.  All of the above skills put money in my pocket, and my friends pockets too.
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I was gardening to follow my bliss, in addition, much later, a great deal later, discovered I was following the money too.  Thinking of selling your home in the next 3 years?  Stage it now, live in the joy/beauty, reap a larger sales price.  Have your cake, eat it too.
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Not selling your home?  Create a beautiful garden, for you, Earth, friends/family.  Beautiful easier living.
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Garden & Be Well,    XOT  

Monday, December 28, 2015

Garden Design Cheat Sheet

Big smile when I saw an old friend, below.  Pair of focal points in double axis, laid in line with central pane of central window of house.  Choosing another historic winner, layers of green, while contrasting shades of green & sizes of foliage.  Nor does this garden skimp upon the full design, using, canopy trees-understory trees-walls of shrubs-groundcover shrubs & flooring.
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Magnificent.
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Simple.  Proven.  Copied for centuries.
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Complete garden design class in 1 picture.
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Lovely home, yet this Garden Design is for all eras & price points.  Especially troublesome architecture.  Think 1960's brick ranch backing the garden, below.  Pendulum swing, in full, yet the garden design holds true.


My Favorite Landscape Designer, Howard Design Studio, Lllc.:

Pic, Howard Design Studio.
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There are 2 top garden designs surviving the ages, this is 1, above.  And, the 2nd is a variation added to this one.
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Look at the pic, above, while mentally labeling each part.  Canopy trees.  Understory trees.  Focal point on axis.  Double axis,  Flooring.  Walls.  Once you become familiar with garden design terms, you own the process.  Promise.
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This is perhaps the most copied Garden Design of the ages, yet it is new/fresh with each iteration.
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This is your cheat sheet.
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Garden & Be Well,    XO T

Wednesday, December 16, 2015

What Historical European Landscapes Can Teach Us About Our Own Landscape

Freshman year of college, aged 17 & having skipped my senior year of high school, I found myself in a cavernous classroom, with hundreds of souls listening to our puppet master gushing ad nauseam into the ether about macro/micro economics.  Except, for me, it was worse.  Little puppet master, obviously, held the secret to vast knowledge, yet his vocabulary was pure gibberish entering my brain.  Looking around, everyone else seemed to get-it.  Stress was building, my 1st college coarse, and knew the game was over.  Finally, I asked my closest amphitheater attendee, "What is a margarine, sounding like, 'marrghareen'?"  An hour spent locked on that word, nothing.  Smiling, she said, "Margin."  Decades later, it still amuses to think in terms of macro/micro.  A personal inner life joke.  How nice it would be to sit for an hour this afternoon listening to Little Puppet Master again, explaining the world's current banking & etc.
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Years after the macro/micro pairing, I locked onto another, sacred/profane.  Most recent pairing to make waves, amusement vs. stewardship.  (If you've ever locked onto a pairing of words.....please leave them in comments, I would really like to know !)      
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Moving on, into the macro about USA landscaping.  Lawn, foundation plantings, mulch, annuals, maintenance contract, fertilizing, insecticides, fungicides, irrigation, pre-emergents.

“How wonderful yellow is. It stands for the sun.” -Vincent Van Gogh I posted a photo of this sweet little house on Facebook last week, and man did it grab a lot of attention! Over 400,000 people reached and 2,057 shares- woah! <:-O The house is just across the lake from us, and it was …:

Pic, above, Pinterest.

With my starter home I immediately gardened as my father had, mowing, and, chemicals, faithfully, monthly, to kill bugs.  I'm not a rebel.  Within a year, I had stopped the 'method', I was trying to get pregnant.  Thinking to stop chemicals until the babies came.  The babies never came, infertility.  However, within 6 weeks of not using chemicals, to kill insects, I noticed I had fewer insects than when I was spraying to kill them.  Macro to micro.  I never used chemicals again, 3+ decades and counting.

Time Present and Time Past: The Grand Tour: Classical Antiquity and the British Class System:

Pic, above, Pinterest.

Within 5 years of zero chemicals, I had zero turf remaining.  Almost 3 decades without grass.  Recently moved to a ca. 1900 American farmhouse, there is no lawn, only meadow or woodland or gravel.  Studying the best historic gardens across Europe, it only took seeing 1 to know there is a template for landscapes, in the macro, trees/shrubs/groundcovers/stone focal point/low meadow cut at 2-3 heights/zero irrigation/no chemicals.
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It took designing/installing historic European style landscapes, for decades, to learn they are not merely about no lawn/no chemicals etc.  The agenda is much greater, pollinator habitat, and balancing the sacred/profane, into stewardship of Earth, community, self.  Amusing, I had accepted micro as macro for so long.
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Surprisingly came across a concise micro/macro about American agriculture in an article in The Guardian,  about Edward Luttwak, " Military strategist, classical scholar, cattle rancher – and an adviser to presidents, prime ministers, and the Dalai Lama. Just who is Edward Luttwak? And why do very powerful people pay vast sums for his advice? "
“Most people live such pointless lives,” said Luttwak as we walked toward his gate. “Not desperate lives – they have cable television – but pointless. For politicians, it’s not pointless, but it always ends in disappointment and bitterness. But meaningful? Their lives are not as meaningful as the Mennonites. The Mennonites are free in the Hegelian sense – they are self-consciously free. And they have unintentionally revealed the ongoing fraud of American agriculture. They don’t destroy the land, they don’t drug animals to death – they make vast profits using 18th-century technology. Personally, I cannot live that life, but I want it to flourish. I relate with Ulysses because I demand an interesting life. I demand it.”
Full article, The Machiavelli of Maryland, here.
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Bunny Williams's Pet-Friendly Homes - Design Chic:

Bunny Williams home, above.  Her garden resonates, it's the historic template, yet more.  Obvious she has demanded that her life be interesting.  Her book, An Affair With a House, is one of the few I tell my clients to purchase.  If you learn best via photos, her book is for you.  It's about interior/exterior, vanishing threshold.
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Bottom line?  What kind of landscape do you want around your home?  The landscape of your heart, that makes you smile, or one fitting in with the neighborhood?  Choose in the macro.  Then follow the micro templates of your choice.
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How do you choose in the macro?  Pinterest.  Create a board of pics for landscapes you love.  Don't stop the board until you have at least 100 pics.  There will be a thread amongst the pics, and your landscape will be that thread.  Promise.  Macro, create your Pinterest board, micro, deduce the thread from your Pinterest board.  More than putting in a landscape you'll be creating an interesting life.
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Garden & Be Well,   XO T

Monday, December 14, 2015

How to Be Smart in a World of Dumb Landscapes

Since I had my TV show on CBS, I've known what my favorite Garden TV format would be.  Of course it wasn't the TV show I hosted.
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Show premise, I arrive to a new client's garden, with an 18-wheeler truck stuffed with oodles of plants, stone, focal points, furnishings, paints, light fixtures, brick, fencing, wood, etc.  And, a huge RV full of men skilled in planting, masonry, carpentry, and etc.  Next, meet the homeowner/s, meandering their interior & exterior, discover their inner narratives to extrapolate into Gardenese.
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A few days later, voila, their Garden, designed, installed, completed.
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Next episode, new homeowner/s, new site, yet 18-wheeler truck ingredients the same.  Repeat for each episode.

the garden: Ulf Nordfjell a Classic:
Pic of garden by, Ulf Nordfjell , on Gardenista.
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Taking from the TV show scenario, described, I would love to have a Flower/Garden Show create multiple Gardens from the same photograph.  Yet, not using the photo design, each entry must create their own Garden Design from the exact ingredients in the photo.  

Madison Cox Design:
Pic Madison Cox Design
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Every Garden in these pics I adore, yet, my mind cannot stop there.  It stretches, wanting to know how many good gardens could be made with the few ingredients of the photo.  Into myriad landscapes.

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Found, pic above, www.uruguay-az.blogspot.com..My private Garden Design game.  Not selfish, decided I must pass it forward, free, to you.  Wicked, yes?  Not a gift, a quest, a hunger, striving for more gardens, more beauty.  Simply..Set the bar high.  Take a good garden, make more good gardens from it..Do take the link, especially, to,  Madison Cox Design.
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Garden & Be Well,     XO Tara
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Copy, it's the 1st rule of garden design.  Copy from the best.  What is Gardenese?  The style of historic gardening I discovered studying the best historic gardens across Europe for 2+ decades.  How are they different, to today's landscapes?  They are gardens of stewardship.  Always organic, they balance the needs of, wildlife, soil, water, air, art, agriculture, life, community, souls.  In addition they save money on cooling costs in summer, heating expense in winter, while raising property value, and reduce maintenance expense.  
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Most important factor learned studying the best historic gardens?  They are not about spending money.  Instead, saving money.  They are about using what's best for YOUR site, available materials, and siting plants to shade in summer, let the sun hit in winter, block prevailing winds, flow with your home's interior.  Flow with your home's interior?  Start your landscape design inside your home, using views from windows.  Copying colors from interiors, and furnishing styles, outside, in your garden.
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Yes, it is this simple.
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Dumbest Garden Design thought I ever had?  Thinking pictures of pretty gardens in books, catalogs, magazines were beautiful because the homeowners had-the-money-to-do-it.  Woefully misguided thinking.  Instead, they were simply smarter than me.

Monday, December 7, 2015

7 Steps to a Beautiful Easy Landscape

Why, really, have a Garden?

"...understand that what you resolve will need to be resolved again. And again. You will come to know things that can only be known with the wisdom of age and the grace of years. Most of those things will have to do with forgiveness."

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"...a mistake for which you alone will pay."

The Sunday porch:enclos*ure, Delray FL 2, 1959, Library of Congress:
Pic, The Sunday porch:enclos*ure, Delray FL 2, 1959, Library of Congress

"Don’t lament so much about how your career is going to turn out. You don’t have a career. You have a life. Do the work. Keep the faith. Be true blue."

all the beauty things...:

Found on vestidoslindosatelier.tumblr.com
"You cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give it. Real love moves freely in both directions. Don’t waste your time on anything else."

Courtyard garden:
Found on decoestilo12.blogspot.com
"Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Sometimes you’ll put up a good fight and lose. Sometimes you’ll hold on really hard and realize there is no choice but to let go. Acceptance is a small, quiet room."
image: Found on cotedetexas.blogspot.com
"The useless days will add up to something. The shitty waitressing jobs. The hours writing in your journal. The long meandering walks. The hours reading poetry and story collections and novels and dead people’s diaries and wondering about sex and God and whether you should shave under your arms or not. These things are your becoming."
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Pic via, The Little Hermitage.
.Topics, above, your garden will answer, absolve, comfort.  From, 
"Tiny Beautiful Things will endure as a piece of literary art,” Almond writes, “as will Cheryl’s other books (Torch and Wild), because they do the essential work of literary art: they make us more human than we were before.”
“But it’s a memoir with an agenda,” Steve Almond writes, “With great patience, and eloquence, (Sugar) assures her readers that within the chaos of our shame and disappointment and rage there is meaning, and within that meaning is the possibility of rescue.”
"Inexplicable sorrows await all of us. … Life isn’t some narcissistic game you play online. It all matters— every sin, every regret, every affliction."
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In a Garden, there is rescue.  How many decades, now, have I known to frame a life question/event, head into my Garden, let the question go, and come away with calm, and answers?  In my Garden, more often, free ranging thoughts arrive, unbidden, life's action steps.  "How did you know to do that?", "Well, I was in my Garden."
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If the essential work of literary art is to make us more human than we were before, Gardens are a book.  Gardening, in popular culture,  is a shovel, shredded car tire mulch dyed a redwood hue, mowing, swapping annuals 2 seasons/year, pouring chemicals.  In those gardens, who can hear?  In those gardens, chaos is fed.
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Curated these pics for you, I know each Garden is taking you in, welcoming, calming, inspiring, lightening the load.  A Garden Design course could be made from these few pictures.  Every topic a Garden imbues, is shot above.
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Have you already realized, in these pics, a Garden's mission statement & your 7 steps?
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7 Steps to a Beautiful Easy Landscape:
* A place to nap.
* A place to live your life between house/garden.  Terrace, deck, veranda...
* Framed views from inside your home, into the garden.  Vanishing threshold.
* Pockets of pure Nature, rusticities.
* Furniture in the Garden.  A place to share dinner/lunch with family/friends.
* Choose a Garden color trinity.  Green/brown/white is the classic, a proven friend.
* Interior style must flow into your exterior style.
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Garden & Be Well,   XO Tara
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Over lunch, in my Garden, in the Conservatory, I have heard stories, no woman shares, unless she's in a Garden confessional.  Great laughter, loud laughter, much laughter, mostly laughter and tears too.  The confessional safe, all have shared, exposed themselves.  Leaving the Conservatory is leaving the events of the stories lighter, yet the spent laughter grows heavier in joy as time passes.
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Thank you Farnum Street for inspiring today's post.

Friday, December 4, 2015

How to Transpose Interior Style Into Your Landscape


Designing a garden, I must go inside your home.  I need to see how you live in the home and which garden views, from inside, are the most important.  Your color choices are important, from, sofa, wallpaper, paint, art, accent pieces.
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Another element is how furniture is arranged in the living room, dining room, and breakfast room.  Those arrangements I often copy exactly for furniture groupings outside, in your garden.  Style choices for the garden furniture too.  Your interiors/exteriors must flow.

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pic via The Garden Home.


 Provence, terrace de luxe:
Pic via Pinterest, here.

Arranging plantings in your garden, I often copy a few groupings, below, from table top, chest top, mantle top.  Transposing a pair of lamps into a pair of understory trees, pair of plates into a pair of plant drifts, pretty bowl at the center, below, could easily be the focal point bench/urn, you get the idea.

Arranging Decorative Accessories on a Sofa Table and other  pieces of furniture.

Pic via The Garden Home.

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Pic from Pinterest, here.

Garden, above, could be pulled from a mantle with a pair of vases, a lovely bowl in the center, and a nice painting on the wall.  See it?
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How you design your table tops inside your home says a lot about how your brain works symmetrical/asymmetrical etc.  And I know you'll like the same styling outside.
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Quite fun, it never pales, when a client will say, "Oh, I love that.", then I reply, "I simply copied that chest top you have in the dining room.", "OMG, you did."
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Subtle & sublime.
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No one taught me to do these things, I just knew to do them.
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My grandmother, Laura, was a great piano player, by ear.  Little access to sheet music, she was known to play the newspaper or magazines.  Transposing written words into notes.  I like to think I've transposed her piano playing into my garden design methodology !
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Now, look around your home with new eyes, and take it outside into the garden.
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Garden & Be Well,   XO T


Monday, November 30, 2015

How to Take Charge of Your Landscape

How to create your landscape?  Do you have a vision of it in your head?  You've begun.  First visions are mostly quaintly wrong, with a sweetness of effort, childlike in obvious desire, with no awareness of the complexities, across myriad layers, yet within, your deepest soul knows what is good, and can create a beautiful landscape, once it informs the brain, "unlearn your assumptions."
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Describing myself, above.
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What happened?  Went back to college for a horticulture degree, still not learning how to design pretty gardens, instead 'the-machine' taught how to design residential gardens with every layer, lawn-shrubs-annuals-fertilizers-chemicals, saturated in the hype they must be tended by a man in a truck arriving weekly, and you pay him monthly.  Landscape as commodity, Nature removed.
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Decades later, after studying beautiful historic gardens across Europe, the patterns/templates/math/simplicities of beautiful good gardens, surfaced, and spoke.  With pride, I can say, no garden I design is original they've all been done before, and proven themselves across centuries, and cultures.  More than working with the owners of gardens, long dead, and their garden designers, I know I am working with their muse.  Landscape design is not voodoo or 'feelings' it is a path of science, elevated into art.  Simplicities strung together.
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Then, a big event, teaching me, after years of delighting within gorgeous landscapes, they are merely sparkly ephemerals, pure amusement.   Beloved gave me 8 heirloom chics, less than a week old, for my birthday, along with a custom built Chinoiserie coop/run.  Once they were large enough they were taken from their garage kennel and put into their coop in my lovely mature garden.  Walking away, that first time, a new awareness made me stop and look at my garden with fresh eyes.  A new concern, the chicks.  I had to keep them alive, healthy, happy.  Stewardship.  Yet it was hardly one sided.  The chicks, aside from eggs, give pleasure in their antics, sounds, even how they walk, yet more.  Somehow, they work in stewardship of me, greater than I for them.  Finally, Nature's circle.  Took me a few decades, but I connected the dots.  G*d almighty first planted a garden.  Men come to build sooner than to garden finely as if gardening were the greater art..... for sure.    
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Metaphors of the bible are writ large tending livestock.  Who knew?  Rare I'm in the chicken coop and they don't make me laugh.  Hen pecked, pecking order, the cliches roll deeper, but chickens aren't my topic, will stop here with the chics.  Getting back to simplicities.  
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Gardens are designed in order of garden math.  An equation, Trees + paths/lawn/meadow/hardscape + focal points + shrubs + perennials/herbs/groundcovers = Beautiful easy landscape.  Trees/large shrubs, especially, must be placed to reduce HVAC expenses.  Include blooms/berries/fall color to cover entire year, add mystery & delight.  Gardens are installed in this order too.  Contrast every element, big leaves next to small leaves, rustic/formal, etc.   Create garden rooms, start your garden design from inside, looking into your garden.  Know how to break the rules of the garden design equation.  Don't choose plants you love/adore, choose plants that love/adore the site.  Your home is involved too, paint colors, lighting, views into windows, style of interior/exterior furnishings must flow.  There you have it, every garden design simplicity.
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The genius involved is trusting the simplicities and ignoring the genius-of-the-lizard-brain.



A client's farm gave the opportunity to site a barn into a similar setting, below.  And, guess what we did?  The view remains the same, no barn in view.  We created mystery, and delight sighting the barn into its own world, ever so close to the pristine pasture.

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Via Pentreath-Hall, above.

Can you 'read' the perennial garden below?  Total formulaic, in use for centuries.  Perennials backdropped with large shrubs, and low meadow/lawn in front, contrasting flower shapes spikey/round, and the obligatory focal point urn/sundial/bench.
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About a decade ago I stopped doing so many perennials, using flowering shrubs instead.  Why?  Deer, drought/flood, dead-heading, dividing, down time.  Perennials seemed gorgeous, but not able to pay their rent.  Want to enjoy your garden, keep it low maintenance?  Shrubs instead of perennials, mostly.


Delicate blooms in pink, white, and purple nearly cover the antique urn in this English garden at Wollerton Old Hall. Photo by Clive Nichols Garden Photography.:

Pic by Clive Nichols, above.

Poems are an intensification of reality, hence, good landscapes are poems.  There was a lovely poem in Women's Voices for Change recently, I know nothing about writing poems or poetry, including this wonderful description, of a poem, below.  Really, iambic pentameter, hexameter, traditional sonnet meters, the poem turns like a sonnet, proportionately correspondent, patterned end rhyme, and more, just really?  How I would love to have a long leisurely lunch in a cafe garden with a real poet. Paper/pen at hand.  Connecting the formation of a poem into its parallel of a garden.  Might as well invite a musician to that lunch, poems & gardens are songs too.  Would want the chef at table in conversation with us good landscapes are a recipe.....you get the idea.

From, Women's Voices for Change, below.

Although this poem is written in modern free verse, my (admittedly sensitive) sonnet-radar detects in it a ghost of that centuries-old form. To begin with, anytime a poem is close to 14 lines (this one is 16), I have to wonder. Although “Kanpur” is not strictly metered, I found myself able to scan the first ten lines as iambic pentameter and the last six as hexameter, both traditional sonnet meters. More compellingly, the poem turns in the same places I’d expect a sonnet to turn. Lines 10 and 11 (proportionately correspondent with the 8th or 9th lines where voltas reside in Petrarchan sonnets) express a turn in consciousness, a shocked recognition that events once deemed “trivial” actually have “vast importance.” The poem’s last two lines (analogous to a Shakespearian sonnet’s closing couplet) contain an actual, physical turn in the phrase describing how Leo “turned on us.”  Finally, the poem does make very subtle use of the patterned end-rhyme conventionally seen in sonnets. Lines 1, 6, 11, and 14 terminate in near-rhymes (late/not/night/out), with exactly five lines between the second and third instances and three lines between the third and last instance. The end word “night” gains resonance from another near-rhyme in that line, “late” in “late at night.” A second series of end rhyme occurs in lines 13 and 16, concluding with “know” and “Leo,” respectively. Moreover, as in line 11, line 16 saturates and intensifies its end-rhyme with a proximate internal rhyme: “Leo was the first to go. It began with Leo.” How fascinating—and devastating—that the sound emphasized here at the end of the poem is the archetypal human utterance of shock and grief: “O.”
The poem describes an event that is a turning point in the larger journey, the moment when things begin to fall apart, and this function is supported by its placement almost exactly in the middle (34th of 63 poems) in the book. As such, it performs a dramatic function in the larger text. Is this function also reflected in the poem’s genre or mode? I see it as predominantly narrative, with the speaker looking back and telling a story about an event in his or her past, but with lyrical (those sound repetitions) and dramatic elements (the foreshadowing and suspense that close the poem). In the end, “Kanpur” defies characterization as lyric, narrative, or dramatic and reminds us that when done well, the blending of poetic genres can produce an amalgam of story, music, and tension as compelling as any work of fiction, and I admire the poem for the way it makes me want to read on, to keep turning the pages of the book, SERIES / INDIA."

a garden diary: Clive Nichols Garden Photography
Pic, above, by Clive Nichols
Formal meeting rustic, above.  Mystery.  I want to see the house belonging to this gate, and investigate its meadows/woods.  Delight.

"The game is just to copy things, no more."
— Matt Ridley in Mendel's Demon
First rule of landscape design, copy.  I thought this rule, horrible, because my garden designs must be original.  Glad I got over myself and 'original'.  Here's the thing about copying, no 2 sites are the same, hence you get original each time you copy.  
Star jasmine archway to courtyard in Provence, France • designer: Michel Semini • Clive Nichols Garden Photography:
Pic, above, by Clive Nichols.
Create garden rooms, above.  Welcome, come in.  

Have a talk with your future landscape.  Seriously.  Frame the negotiation, below.  Time, money are constraints to each landscape, lose this excuse, everyone has it.  How can you overcome lack of time/money?  Frame the negotiation.  You are the deal maker, and your landscape is making a deal with you in return.  What do you each bring to the table?  Zero difference here between designing a garden or making a business deal.  
From the Harvard Business Review, below.

Control the Negotiation Before It Begins


Friday, November 27, 2015

Tweaking a Good Garden


Ernest Hemingway, "Never mistake motion for action."
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If you're working in your garden, and it's easy, you're probably doing it wrong.  Looking back at the early years of gardening, in my 20's, what would I tell that girl?  Most of gardening is counterintuitive.  Copy historic gardens from Europe.  Choose the simplest solution.  Keep your love affair with plants last on the priority list, top your plant list with those-great-bores performing against, drought, flood, deer, disease, insects, with little maintenance.  Do not design your garden from the street, stand inside your house, look out the windows, and begin designing the garden.
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Question pretty garden pictures, are they supporting the house, property values, Nature, and lives of those in the home?
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The Glam Pad: A Glamorous Palm Beach Bungalow:

Pretty garden/home, above.  But.  If the sidewalk/street is at the front, move the hedge forward along the sidewalk/street, replace a central part of the turf with more paving, turn a couple of those windows into doors, and create a courtyard, espalier a flowering evergreen woody shrub against the solid wall for instant lush with little maintenance, choose comfortable seating, and small tables at the chairs for easy outdoor dining, and......
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Past my 20's I cannot look at garden pics without the brain overlay.  Better, it's not personal, the ideas are all historic, done for centuries.
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How many other ways to historically change this sweet garden, above?
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Many.
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This is my idea for a garden show, have 10 entries do the same project.  Would be happy to do all 10 myself.  That would be fun, challenging myself, making each one sublime.  But I would still want to see how 10 other people would do it.  Am selfish that way, always wanting to see more, learn more.  Always.
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How would you change this garden, above?
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Garden & Be Well,   XO T
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Pic from here.  I have a Pinterest board, Changes, filled with good gardens I would like to tweak.

Thursday, November 26, 2015

Thanksgiving Day in Stewardship

A year before buying our American Farmhouse, ca. 1900, we put an offer on another farm.
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Tiny house, small barn, a bit of woodland, and pastures.  Pastures were dominate, strong enough to make me look up the derivation.  Depth of description was surprising to she-who-had-always-lived-in-subdivisions.  Pasture, in the archaic form, Food & Nourishment.
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Epiphany taken, that moment, in the 7" thick Websters Dictionary.
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Pastures are not empty land.
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Pastures are the gift of sustenance from Providence.
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Empty?
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Crops, livestock, and more.
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As local bumper stickers proclaim, No Farms No Food.
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This could go in a lot of directions.
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Delicious, yes?
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Direction on this Thanksgiving Day, turkey ironstone, below.




How did I miss the heart-on-their-sleeve message?  Turkey plates, platters, bowls, kitsch, right?
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Before almost purchasing Pasture Farm, I had named it, I had the good fortune to work amongst heirloom turkeys, below.  From virgin pasture, below, I had been asked to design/build a 'historic' walled orchard.  It was my orchard to site, size, integrate into 100's of acres, with historic home & barns.  Game on.
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Back to the heirloom turkeys.  While designing the new 'historic' orchard on site, sitting in my folding chair, drawing on the folding table, heirloom turkeys looked me straight in the eye and meandered all around.  First takeaway from heirloom turkeys is their stunning color package.  As if Monet had spring time fun after lunch with good wine, and new tubes of bright paints.  Next, were their feathers.  Rather, what they did with every feather upon their bodies.  Their feathers would ruffle outward concavely, almost 1/2" space between each, and vibrate.  Vibrations intense, creating a sound amongst their feathers.  Of course I was charmed.  By heirloom turkeys!  I also knew those turkeys were meant for several Thanksgiving Day tables.  


As much as I enjoy seeing the historic orchard, now built, above, I enjoyed those hours, working amongst the heirloom turkeys in a pasture, as a life delight.
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I got the memo, Providence sustains us, gives us all we need, but we must take it.
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Taking it, our gift from Providence, isn't work, it's pleasure.
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The turkey dishes are not kitsch.
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Turkey dishes are a prayer of thanksgiving.



Before any epiphanies about pastures & turkey dishes, I had purchased this platter, below, for a song.
Thought it was amusing, and would be fun on the Thanksgiving Day table.
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Life is rich, it is I, now, in thanksgiving to Providence, for all provided, and what the turkey dishes have been saying since their own inception.  Whether I understood or not.  The old patterns of turkey dishes are the bible, in pictorial form.  Taking from pastures we can build a home from strong woods lasting centuries, put food on the table, weave cloth to wear, understand the stories about people in the bible, and absorb onto our skin biome/intestinal biome, organisms separate from us, but without which, we die.
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God almighty first created a garden.  Indeed.


Before the bible was written, it was planted, on the Pasture of Earth.
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Today's turkey & dressing will be served on my platter.  
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Living generations off farm land, it is normal to grow up thinking industrialized farming is normal and those who do the farming, menial.  Grocery stores are expected to be overstuffed with delights from across the globe, all seasons, rain/shine.
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Getting heirloom chickens, first livestock of my life, almost 4 years ago, I went from amusement in my garden and gardening, into stewardship.
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Stewardship, depth/breadth beyond measure, compared to amusement. 


Eating out recently, this painting, above, was in the foyer.
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Not just a goat.
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A goat looking at me, saying, "Be a good steward to livestock & Earth, it is the only way you will survive."
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Amusement vs. Stewardship
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Garden & Be Well,    XO Tara
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Top pic, Martha Stewart, from here slideshow, here.  2nd pic from jobsite, 3rd/4th pics from my pantry.

Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Curated Not Collected

Sourcing focal points/pots/furnishings for your garden, before any item comes home, ask yourself, "Is this piece so wonderful it will be fought over at my estate sale?"
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Paying attention to the best gardens several observations resonate.  Alas, the most important, don't.
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The best landscapes have multiple narratives of curating.
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Lack of curating creates a common theme amongst new landscapes, hodge-podge-lodge.

Moving from my 30 year cottage garden into a historic American Farmhouse taught me more about curating.  Several layers of curating are site specific, other layers travel well.  Wish I had known this before moving.  2 massive truckloads to Goodwill later, I've earned a new expertise.
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Last weekend I was able to further curate garden accessories on their 12+ pallets.   
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Head Collection, below, made the transition, along with terra cotta.  Still looking for St. Francis' head, he started the collection.



Clusters of vintage watering cans, below, made the narrative move.  Hopefully the huge chandelier, below, will find the perfect arbor or oak/pecan tree branch.
 

Cat collection, below, made the move.  Laura, below, was conceived/born in my Cottage Garden. and loves the move.  Enjoy watching her create routines. 


Next best focal point rule, after the one at top, one focal point per area.
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How do the heads & cats fit into 'one focal point per area' ?
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Subsidiary focal points.  Not main focal points they are tucked within foliage, only seen by the observant.  
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How many people toured my small Cottage Garden & never saw the head/cat collections?  Many.
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Those narratives, curated.
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Collections can overwhelm, if you are there, with too much stuff, lucky you, a new brainwave, curate.
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Garden & Be Well,    XO Tara
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Pics taken this weekend.  

Thursday, November 19, 2015

Best Garden Tools: Garden Apron


Beginning the 2nd professional nursery job, of my life, in my 20's, this time propagation was involved too, I was given an apron.  To wear.  Oh my.  As if punching a time clock, with a college degree, weren't enough, I had to wear an apron too?  Honestly, dad died without ever knowing these 2 facts about my career, which was not a career to him but an embarrassment wrapped in shame.

Grand Apron – Bowl & Pitcher I like the look of these. I bet I could make my own with something sturdy for the garden.:
Pic, above, www.BowlandPitcher.com

During those 2.5 years of nursery/propagation work, wearing an apron, I was in bed most nights by 9pm.  Tired, but happy.  The work was exhausting, leaving little time, or strength, for working in my own garden.

These aprons are inspired by Japanese designs and have no strings to tie.:

Pic, above, from www.Frabrics-Store.com

The happy day of resigning arrived, bingo, full-time self-employed designing gardens.  And, energy abounded to put into my own garden.

Magnolia Pearl Apron Dress:

Pic, above, www.MagnoliaPearl.com

About 2 hours into working my own garden, after leaving the nursery, something was wrong.  Work was not flowing, easily.  Too many little trips trodding a path to get something.  And, this was before cell phones.

The Hearty Home: A Japanese Style Apron Tutorial. I have been searching for tutorial for so long, I decided to make my own.:

Pic, above, via, The Hearty Home, and with a tutorial to make the apron.

Aside from the obvious about propagation, and learning how to work 4 different types of professional greenhouses, I had learned how to work, wearing an apron.  That foe, the apron.  Epiphany taken, G*d does have a sense of humor, the apron was full circle back in my life.
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Needs for MY garden apron.  Tough fabric yet lightweight for summer heat/humidity, hold cell phone, Felcos, weeds, trash, a treat for the chics, etc.  All my aprons have been worn at the waist, until now.
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Moving to our small homestead has changed the type of apron needed.  Need something more functional than a waist apron & don't want to tie strings.  Done with that.
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On the hunt for the apron, above.  It seems most functional.  The entire apron 'thing' is still amusing, to me, decades later.  Wish dad had lived longer to get the epiphany about my gardening.  Going thru paperwork after he died I found his Air Force discharge papers from his test pilot days.  He only had 1 other completed course, aside from test piloting, psychological warfare training.  That made me smile!  My gardening, professionally, about did him in.
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Garden & Be Well,   XO Tara
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Two best garden tools?  Felco pruners & my apron.

Monday, November 16, 2015

Fencing: Contrast Formal + Rustic

Garden Design uses contrast as a potent tool.  If I could only have 5 arrows in my quiver, contrast is one of the 5.
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Contrast, everything.
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Fine country estate?  Rustic fence, below.
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Why?  More layers of narrative.  More metaphor.  A deeper story.  Intellect playing in grace.

From Berkshire to Buckingham:

Rustic fences, below, with fine manor houses?  Centuries of examples.

P1040209:

Charming, below, welcoming.  Formal fence, below, instead?  Fine.  But you've just created a 'walk-thru', get where you are going don't stop statement.

Tara Dillard: path, axis, enfilade, roses, trellis, potager, gate, focal points, lighting:

Elegant roses, rustic fence, below, is wicked.  I smell the fragrance.

Magic Garden <3:

Rustic, yet looks formal, below.

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Rustic, reading formal, below, with the black stain.

Rustic 4-board fence stained black, with black vinyl welded wire:

Formal, reading rustic, below, with hog panel wire.

hog panel fence:


A little privacy, below, historic lattice.  

TARA DILLARD: Front Porch: A Way to Test Design, furniture, lattice, drapes, color, green, brown, white, susanne hudson's front porch: I

Beloved & I are building a deck at the back of our American Farmhouse.  We chose the formal reading rustic with hog panels.  We didn't want to block views of  softly rolling hills/open-wooded/lake/sunsets, yet needed a hint of elegance to bind to the house, while honoring the simple livestock barbed wire fence along a property line with dairy cows.  Contrast.  Need 1 panel of the lattice, above, with our railing.
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All day yesterday we were building the new deck, just the 2 of us.  At our age.  Go us.  Late in the daylight, a ribbon of black birds flew over, the ribbon must have been a mile long, and they were all talking.  Haven't seen/heard anything like it since childhood.  Sunset was a stunner.  Having lived in subdivisions my entire life, without seeing sunrises/sunsets I'm easily distracted by a good sunset.  Hints of the Milky Way too.  More days ahead, working on the deck around the day job.  Soon we must decide roofing for portions of the deck and screened room.  Hard choices, not wanting to block sky views, yet getting protection from summer sun, and mosquitoes.
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All pics linked from my Fences Pinterest Board.
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Garden & Be Well,    XO T
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Made the choice to build ourselves, and save $5,000+.  Beloved already had the know-how & tools.  Huge.